You are born a good person, you do not become one. – different

You are born a good person, you do not become one.

This is the situation you give… and you do not take!
We have all met such people in our lives. People in good faith, friendly, nice.

People who give and enjoy only that.

They do not go blind, they do not believe that they give what they get, because in the end this leaves them indifferent.

They do not give only when they have an interest, they do not even think about the conditions of place, time and especially individual, when it is to offer.

For them the good reason, the joy they will share and the love they generously give comes spontaneously.

Goodness does not require thought!

They are people who, as they say, and I emphasize it as they say, you are happy to meet, to hang out with them, to have them in your life in the end! You talk about them and your words drip honey, you applaud them and you think with your lame mind that this is how you reciprocate what… they do not ask you!

But in the end everything is just words!

It is commonplace, but here the phrase “to boil the words, the deed matters” fits perfectly!

If you were really happy that in your life you had the honor of meeting such a person, you would pay a little attention to the signs.

People generally offer others what they want for themselves.

This is the coveted sign! The person you have next to you and you have been trampling on for so long, because you take him for granted, just wants your attention.

He does not need verbal recognition of what he does for you, but practice.

He is a sensitive person, who has understood the absolute meaning of life, the selfless offer!

They’s just human beings, not well-made robots.

At some point, logic, common sense, awakens in them.

They see things that stand out, that they were caught sucking. There are times, – in some give importance, because these are the exceptions – that takes them down, that they wake up as if they came out of lethargy and face the raw and harsh reality. They realize that what they have been struggling with for so long is not worth it, it does not meet any of their expectations. And they feel the absolute emptiness, the frustration, that there is no worse feeling. Sadness, sorrow, anger are ephemeral, time heals them. Disappointment, however, hurts you deeply, it creates a trauma for you, irreparable. It dissolves inside you like a palace in the sand. This is demolished and you feel empty.

And yet, even then they do not blame others, they consider themselves to be to blame. And maybe they are right! Because they give without taking into account who it goes to, they do not judge people by the usual criteria. If they love, they truly love and give unconditionally. They recognize their mistakes, which led them to dead ends. But they do not hold a grudge and this is their sensitive point, which makes them a harbinger of their luck!

These people are usually the most hurt. Love them, a little more! They give to others in the hope that so. their own wound will be healed, their own need for love will be met. And in the end, what do they ask for? Pick them up when they fall!

A touch from nowhere, where they do not expect it. A phone call at an unsuspecting time. A kiss for good night or thank you. A walk that will relax them and change their routine. These people are asking for simple things. Small but miraculous signs. Able to immerse them again… in their world, which is not dreamily created, nor does it have pink bubbles. Just when the sky is full of gray clouds they get wet, because they put under their umbrella those they love… and say that they love to walk in the rain!

And it is futile to try to change such a person. It will always fall on a wall. They will treat him badly and yet, at the first opportunity he will behave properly.

This is how you are born, you do not become.

I will not say that it is a curse, on the contrary, it is a gift, which unfortunately has not been recognized and you almost never appreciate it.

And because in this life, the good ones will always tread on it, and as long as it treads on them they will crawl, should we just give them another umbrella for the rainy days?

By Konstantina Pozoukidou.


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