What your orgasm is, such is your life!
Orgasm – a moment of timelessness, the sight of perfection, a small death, the memory of the future, the secret creation of life, the opening of the door to the Universe (God). So much can be said about the most desirable enjoyment for a person.
As the culmination of the sexual experience, orgasm represents a wide range of feelings and sensations with very fine and nuanced differences. Wilhelm Reich (1897-1957), a German psychiatrist and psychotherapist, was among the first to deal with sexuality and the attempt to define orgasm, and his main theory was that repressive upbringing in humans creates something like armor that prevents the free flow of energy within the body.
He defines orgasm as “the ability to let go of the flow of life energy without any brakes, the ability to completely discharge all the fucked up sexual stimuli through involuntary pleasant convulsions of the body.” Different character structures of people react differently to orgasm. Some can’t stand it, some react impulsively and aggressively, some with sadness or fear, some with joy. Drastic differences can be noticed in the descriptions of orgasm, so the body psychotherapist Ljiljana Klisić in the book “Body psychotherapy – to orgasm and beyond” suggests the following classification: primitive, immature and mature orgasm.
A primitive orgasm
It characterizes the early stage of human development and the level of consciousness close to the animal. This type of orgasm is least characterized by conscious enjoyment, because it is a simple ejaculation and there does not have to be a feeling of love for the partner. A man with an orgasm like this cannot make a woman happy. Primitive orgasm is characterized by indiscriminate indulgence in each partner, lust directed only at satisfying the sexual instinct, and attention directed only at the sexual organs. Man is in contact with instincts and natural forces, and the scope of consciousness is narrowed. Orgasm lasts 3-4 seconds.
An immature orgasm is dominated by self-centeredness and neglect of one’s partner’s humanity. The partner is perceived as an object that only needs to meet our needs. Pleasure is either limited or completely blocked. It is divided into narcissistic orgasm, perversions and blocked orgasm. The narcissistic orgasm is accompanied by a feeling of ominpotence and the belief “I am the center of the world”.
An immature orgasm lasts 6 to 10 seconds. Contractions are faster, constricting and shallow. Satisfaction is felt only in the genital zone, and not in the whole body. There is no full contact, closeness and acceptance between the partners. Some general characteristics of men with this orgasm: proving masculinity through “spending women”, he is tormented by a feeling of inferiority and is convinced that all women long for the “big” (always bigger than his), despises women and only wants to humiliate them with sex. In women: shyness and restraint, the flow of energy and indulgence is blocked, sex is taught rationally (sex is more in her head than between her legs) sex is either just an orgasm or a form of trade, a reward for attention, seeking confirmation of her attractiveness, bribe).
With a mature orgasm, there is much more pleasure, which then brings a feeling of fulfillment, love, acceptance and fulfillment. In addition to physical attraction between partners, there is also some kind of love and acceptance. The flow of energy is established in the whole body and tenderness and love are exchanged with the partner. In addition to opening up to another person, orgasmic emptying enables the lowering of accumulated stress, spreading pleasure throughout the body and achieving a state of deep relaxation. It lasts from 4 to 10 seconds. Mature orgasm is defined as the ability to let go of the flow of life energy without any brakes, the ability to completely discharge all the fucked up sexual stimuli through involuntary pleasant convulsions of the body, with a feeling of greater openness and love for the partner.
Prolonged orgasm could be a transitional form between a mature orgasm and developed forms. It takes more minutes. With this orgasm, the types of contractions change in both women and men. Going towards ecstasy, contractions become longer, slower and more frequent. A person with such an orgasm has even better contact with his own feelings, there are fewer and fewer unconscious processes in the body and psyche. This also leads to better, even deeper contact. Partners will be able to love and accept each other even more, regardless of the fact that they are fully aware of the partner’s shortcomings. Blockages in the body disappear and the flow of energy is stronger and more complete.
This type of pleasure is said to await us in further (to some even closer) evolution, because it is connected with the development of consciousness. An ecstatic orgasm lasts for several minutes or hours and represents the most intense, most beautiful and most wonderful positive psychological and spiritual experience that a man can have. The genital zone gives only the initial impulse, and the partners feel strong love and devotion to each other, but also permeation with the entire reality around them. At this level, a person not only enjoys the partner, but perceives the partner’s divine side, and the realization of the divine in himself. Ecstasy is characterized by transcendence and coming to a higher level of consciousness, the so-called mystical experience, the discovery of a new way of existence. This higher new consciousness also enables the so-called “valley orgasm” – making love for several hours with orgasm control. The partners go on the verge of orgasm and the orgasm itself is without convulsions. Infinity, a feeling of celebration, perfection, great satisfaction, loss of differences, time, space, corporeality, words, desires, sadness, sinfulness, experiencing sensations of energy movement up and inside, all accompanied by a feeling of peace and tranquility. A full flow of energy is established between the lovers and they connect on all levels, which opens them to the next stage.
It signifies a state of oneness with all that exists, the attainment of the Absolute, the levels of the Spirit. It goes beyond the frame of time, the entrances are to infinity. Metaphorically speaking, it is making love with the whole universe. It is more of a long-term state of consciousness than an instantaneous experience. It is characterized by conscious unity with all nature, serenity and a sense of bliss. Duality is abolished, sexuality as the attraction of two separate bodies is abolished and a non-dual existence is entered. Just a reflection of this heavenly state, most people feel only a few seconds. By working on yourself, refreshing your feelings and reviving the whole organism, it is possible to transform sexual energy.
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