What to do when you meet the love of your life at the wrong time

True love is what each of us searches for, consciously or unconsciously, all our lives. Since time immemorial, we imagine that our life would be perfect only if we found our true love. The one and only, after which nothing will be the same and when we will know why we have not managed to achieve true love with anyone else before.


So, day by day, we continue to look for our other half. From time to time, that feeling of anticipation becomes frustrating and completely disappointing because finding the other half is constantly delayed. You just thought you found her when she got away.

But do you know what broke your heart into small pieces?

When you find your other half, true love, but you can’t be with her. It’s like getting an idea of ​​what your life might look like, but it can’t come true. Even if you have everything in this world, it remains the only piece of the puzzle that you can’t get, no matter what you do.

Definitely, it’s the worst thing that can happen to anyone. It is a kind of struggle that you enter into against the whole world, against yourself, and against the force that has fallen on you with all available forces in this world, and they are created in that part that you lack to have everything you want in this world, to be fulfilled in whole. When you love with all the strength of your being, but you can’t have.

To meet such love for the first time in your life is a feeling that seems to have already happened, as if it was yesterday’s news. It’s like you already know each other.

It seems familiar, and yet it is something completely new. Everything he does looks perfect, as if he came to life and came out of the cartoon you drew as a child, when you imagined your true and only love. The only difference is that you didn’t have that – they lived happily ever after – moment.

Whatever the reason, it could be the fact that he has never been able to understand your true worth or that he has already been in a relationship with someone else or lives thousands of miles away from you or ask God for another reason – but you just can’t you get over it and overcome the fact that you can’t be with it.

Have you ever had the opportunity to see a handicapped person who loved to run but tragically lost his legs in an accident or someone who loved to sing but lost his voice?

Have you seen how unhappy these people are? Losing your love for any reason is the same feeling that makes you completely disabled. Incomplete. It’s as if your legs have been cut off, and all you want in life is to run.

When people say – keep going, there will be someone better for you / you know how many would die for you – all you have to say at that moment is that it’s easier said than done.

I don’t want someone better, someone who is more this or that, I don’t want anyone else, I just want him! And no one takes it seriously because many people easily give up on their goals in life. They also give up the search for their true love, being satisfied with mediocre solutions.

As we said, it is not easy to find true love. In fact, it is so difficult for people to get tired of searching.

Therefore, satisfying medium solutions remains the only option for them and they are satisfied with it in the end, giving up further search. One of the main reasons is that they are afraid that they will be left alone, and the other is because they have started to doubt themselves. They lost the most important thing – faith.

However, this is not a case that happens to everyone. Some find the love of their life at the very beginning of the search, say, back in high school. But not everyone is that lucky and that’s fine. Not everyone is lucky enough to find the love of their life even at the age of 25, not even a hint of it, but when you manage to find it, you should do everything in your power to create the conditions so that it can be fully realized. It doesn’t have to be an instant decision. Sometimes you have to go through a phase I want to but I can’t havem. Because we need to learn and fight with ourselves, our fears and aspirations, to understand and comprehend why sometimes we can’t have some things when we want them. Maybe we are not ready for them at that moment.

On the other hand, many are not ready to give up everything they have had in their life so far for something they would like to have, no matter how attracted they are to the idea.

Fear of uncertainty and potential failure, loss of security is what prevents people from stepping out of their comfort zone and stepping into an uncertain future, no matter how great it may seem to them and I would entice with its enchanting splendor. Whether all this is worth it is a question that is constantly floating in the air.

Here’s the thing, sometimes you have to believe in an already shabby and too many times repeated phrase from love movies – believe in yourself. True love is sometimes not easy to find. Everyone faces challenges in life and we need to look beyond that.

In any case, we would leave special emphasis on the word believe it. Because it often happens that people lose faith in themselves too easily and too quickly. Maybe that’s how it should be, because otherwise we will not be able to realize the value of what we crave, until we go through the agony of living without it. Just keep in mind that what you are going through is a journey to what you long for.

It is not a promise that you will reach that one person, your true love, but that you should have faith that you will find it, in the end.

It can happen that you draw attention to yourself for a moment, during your trip, meeting people with whom you will have a nice time and who will complete your time and make the trip more pleasant, who will be perfect for everyone but you. Many times you will not even be able to find out the exact reason why you failed to have a long-term relationship with some of these people. Always stay aware of that feeling of deep dissatisfaction and unfulfillment because those are the feelings that should drive you to go forward in search of your true love. It’s just a reason to keep going with full force, not to give up on love.

Keep in mind that nothing is impossible. Everything is possible and all options are open, if you are miraculously ready and willing to accept them in your life. Because what seems impossible to you now, can be easily achieved in a few years or even several months, but it is achievable and can happen. And not that it can, but it wants to happen. It’s all just a matter of faith and time. So, contrary to what many would do or ask you to do – do not give up love. Keep looking for her. Believe and miracles will happen! Because whoever believes in miracles, creates miracles.

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