What it takes to feel love

Those who persist in thinking that the unconscious does not exist become addicted to destructive patterns of repeating the same mistakes.

Therefore, it is necessary to recognize the pattern first.

Nikola Žuvelapsychotherapist and jyotish advisor

Let’s say, if someone avoids answering questions, he doesn’t notice that people are constantly questioning him at work, so a problem arises. People are afraid of change, ie. risky steps due to rejection, but they think that these patterns will disappear with age, however, the patterns are reinforced.

What is characteristic of today’s time is the fear of meeting people, which has increased. Few people want to take risks, and this is best shown by suitcases full of things on trips. A full suitcase is the surrounding of things that we will deal with on the trip, so that there is no real relationship, but many things are the maintenance of an ideal imposed from the outside, by the father – a society that says that if you have a lot of things, you will be accepted, relationships are less important.

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So, a safe life is the ideal today, and it is devoid of emotions and full of superficiality, where television shows become a substitute life. In this way, people do not have to go through the experience of complex emotions. The demand of a society that embodies an unconscious father in people is an uncompromising ruler of people.

That father says: buy and people buy.

He says: relationships don’t matter and today, relationships really don’t matter.

The father says that hedonism and superficial relationships are important and that’s how people behave.

There is no reflection, but without reflection man remains an immature child, open to many dangers, where patterns remain unsanctified and man’s sword of Damocles has brought us to the very destruction of nature and the environment in which we live.

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It is a fact of life that we cannot always expect success. If we want peace, without accepting risks, then despair is a fact. Risk is uncertainty, but we grow in that uncertainty.

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