All long-term relationships have ups and downs, problems that can arise at any moment. Learn how to deal with them before you give up your love.
No matter how long you have been in a relationship or marriage, there are some basic rules that should be followed, but it is not always so easy to apply them in practice. Strengthen your relationship and all the good things – fun, sex, trust, will be better than ever.
Say out loud what you like
Boredom, routine and everyday problems can put out the spark between partners.
Pay attention to the little things, praise your darling’s new shoes, notice the new hairstyle. Thank your husband for helping around the house, tell him he’s really handsome in that t-shirt. It seems pointless, but it means a lot, after a while the relationship will flare up as at the very beginning, because that’s how it all starts, with small signs of attention and courtship.
The power of touch
Human touch releases endorphins and makes the one who receives and touches happier. Hold hands when you are outside, wipe each other’s faces after a morning wash. A kiss on the back or behind the ear and running your fingers through your hair will awaken old emotions.
How is this connection built?
To begin with, support your partner in everything, do not talk about your intimate things to anyone if he / she is bothered. Don’t let anything disturb “your” weather.
Commit to each other that you will talk about your plans and dreams for at least half an hour every day and do not abandon your intimate life.
Don’t blame each other
When we are angry we most easily point the finger and blame each other for bad things. Start with yourself, ask yourself if you made a mistake somewhere, change yourself before blaming your partner.
To be happy in a relationship you need to be happy with yourself first. Provide yourself with “your” time, which you will spend the way you like best. Whether it’s a relaxing massage, time with friends, reading a book or a walk is completely irrelevant.
Conflicts and occasional quarrels are an absolutely normal thing in any relationship. Quarrels can be a healthy way to look at your partner in a completely different way. However, try to calm your gestures, try to listen to each other, avoid words never and forever, and if you see that you cannot find a common solution, announce a truce and continue talking about the problem when you are colder.
Do not hesitate to quarrel, and they say that sex after an argument is always better.
Right time for discussion
Never start an argument if you are tired or hungry, if you have an objection wait for some better circumstances otherwise something much uglier will be born.
This is the simplest, but also the most powerful step in maintaining a relationship. Talk less, listen more.
Don’t interrupt each other, don’t offer a solution and don’t defend yourself before you listen to what your partner has to say.
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