Things you should never talk about in bed!

The mouth is great for many things in bed, but the most important of all is talking. The second most important thing is to know when to shut up.

There are some things that are never said in bed, especially not in the heat of the moment. Like, for example!

This sentence immediately causes paranoia, because it imposes on our partner that he feels that something was wrong, that he should have been louder and more dramatic in order for things to be obvious. It is true that for every person in this world who moans loudly, moans and makes a lot of noise during orgasm, there is another person who does the same thing in silence. You should know that silence does not mean that it was not pleasant. On the contrary! The experience of silence can be many times deeper and stronger than loud articulation.

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If a woman says this to her male partner, it may offend him further because he may think that you should be able to feel the difference in erection caused by his sexual arousal. To know when things start and how they end. Is it possible that she is so small for me that she can’t make a difference ?! Pita it is.

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This remark is often accompanied by a passively aggressive statement that you are dragging him and that you are pagan and evil and that his balls will stay blue, as teenagers usually know, although much older men sometimes know how to try to scratch for intercourse. this forum.

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There are good enough reasons why this is a bad thing and a way to force sex.

First of all, if someone says she doesn’t want to continue having sex, no matter how much they cuddle, hug, kiss and burn each other, that’s fine and you have to accept her / his desire without talking and convincing yourself. reasons for. This is called consent. Consent. Sex without consent, that is, forcing a partner to have sex without his / her consent is rape. That should be clear.

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Another good reason is that many partners who have been in a relationship for a long time start some kind of sexual stimulation just to see if they can get aroused enough to have sex. Stimulation often leads to excitement. If you know that your partner will sulk or be in a bad mood, become aggressive if you decide not to continue, you will not get away with trying to persuade him to change his mind.

couple-1363982_1280If you are aroused and your partner at some point in sexual foreplay says – You know what, I’m not much for sex today. Would you mind if we stopped? The only correct answer is – Of course I won’t mind!

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If you really can’t stop, and you shoot yourself in the bathroom for a self-satisfying finish. Or do it next to him / her, if he / she doesn’t mind. Again, consent! Because respect for the partner, above all, is the basis of any good partnership.

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To not so, this is the worst, humiliating comment you can make to your partner about his sexual technique. There is nothing that can sabotage even the best sexual intercourse. We agree that you need to get feedback from your partner so that your partner knows what you really like and want, but there is a time, a way and a place to do it.

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Unless you’ve both agreed that just that sexual relationship is a training option to both practically set out and train each other in what you want. Demonstration exercises are not such a bad thing, with mutual consent, of course.

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Some surprises can be great. Underwear, a new version of a sexy toy that you have already used and both of you like, a reserved room in a sexy hotel for one night. We are almost certain that you will not make a mistake with any of the above, nor will you arouse the suspicion of your partner.

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However, the exclamation itself is a surprise, when opening the door for your partner to enter the scene of your darkest sexual fantasies, whatever they may be, it means a guaranteed boomerang.

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In any case, proposing something different in relation to the daily routine is usually welcomed with open arms, but, nevertheless, one should be careful with making drastic steps.

couple-731890_1280On the other hand, you need to know your partner well. Give him a hint, which could tickle his imagination, and on the other hand, introduce him to a new story in a less stressful way. That way you will know you are on the right track. In addition, the introduction to the new story is part of the fun.

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Oh, no! This is to make it clear to your partner that he is not particularly gifted. Is there a worse way to insult him ?! Especially when it is known that 90% of men are obsessed with the size of their penis.

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Of course, such a statement can be equally offensive if a man says it to a woman. Which would mean that her vagina is too big and she didn’t do Kegel exercises regularly.

Seriously, once upon a time, interrupting sex to answer the phone was something that could only be seen in the B series of production.

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According to a recent survey, every tenth person checks their phone during sexual intercourse, and one in five will actually answer the phone.

Most have sex for 15 minutes after intercourse. Is that call really so important that he can’t wait that long ?! Get serious and respect your partner! And myself!

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This is usually pulled out of men’s sleeves when the woman does not react in the expected way during penetration. That is, it cannot peak during sexual intercourse. It should be borne in mind that only 30% of women can experience an orgasm during sexual intercourse, without additional stimulation, usually of the clitoris.

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It is much more likely that your partner is among the 70% who do not do it so easily, so it does not mean that your ex-partner did not have ‘problems’, maybe she just did not feel comfortable enough to tell you openly, but she winged and simulated an orgasm, which is the worst of it all.

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There are many reasons why women simulate orgasm. Talk to your partner about it, if you want a close relationship, full of warmth, trust and respect.

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Contrary to popular belief, men are not sex robots who can get an erection on command or a breath of fresh air.

happy-couple-692725_1280There are many, many reasons why his mast cannot be raised high and solid as a rock, and that he likes you and is close to you is the least possible.

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He is much more likely to be under the influence of alcohol, under stress or simply overtired. On the other hand, you may be too attracted to him, he is in trouble with you and he is not sure that he will meet your expectations because he is under pressure to do his job as well as possible and to show himself in the best light.

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In any case, making a fuss about it further complicates the situation. But big deal, it will be better the next time you are more relaxed.

You don’t always have to agree with your partner and do whatever he suggests, but try not to use words like strange, perverted ili that he should seek help from an expert because you don’t like his proposal enough. Unless the proposal is really outside the limits of what is acceptable, although it is a very debatable and sensitive field.

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You can’t expect to have the same taste in everything in life and be happy if your tastes differ sometimes. In this way you can discover new things, tastes and pleasures. If it’s okay for you not to like eggs and spaghetti prepared in the same way, why should sex be different ?!

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