And what is the message of this story? If someone hasn’t called you, they won’t either. If someone hasn’t decided for you, they won’t either. If someone didn’t reply to your message, they won’t either. If someone hasn’t decided to leave their partner they “don’t like” for you, they won’t. If you are not a priority for someone, you will not be their priority. If in your madness, passion and love that this energy sends, someone has not decided what to do with you, believe me they won’t either.
Maybe he will. Maybe he’ll call you when he needs you. Maybe he will declare love when he realizes that you are losing interest. He may promise you a divorce when he sees you want a breakup.
Maybe he’ll buy you flowers when he sees that your attention has wandered. They may call you their first choice, even though you will never be.
And no, it’s not out of love. Out of respect. It’s not out of passion. It’s out of helplessness. Use. Calculations. If someone doesn’t give you love, attention, time, and themselves, they will never even give them to you. They will make an “agreement” with you about a relationship and you will wait in vain for it to get better. Sincerely? It will never get better.
Relationships that are dysfunctional at the start can only get worse over time. If there is no love in the beginning, why do you think it will be in 5 years? What is the purpose of this deception other than your ego? Because we know your heart is broken. And several times.
Why not get rid of being just a way station for someone. Sex. Good time. Paid dinner or drinks. Piggy bank. Easier life for two. And why are you angry at everyone who tells you that’s the case. So many times, for bad relationships, I hear, “But we’re still together even though everyone thought we weren’t going to survive.”
Do you really think that a relationship is a matter of survival? Suffering? Is it that staying in that relationship, despite bad prognoses, really what makes you happy? Is your heart at peace? In place? Filled? Because, you know, it’s not the duration of the relationship that matters, not the one in “spite of others”, but the one in you.
Are you whole?
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