The “findom”, a submission game that can pay off big


Revered as queens by their submissives, domineering mistresses have made Twitter their kingdom. With little regard for sexual content, the social network is not the type to moderate pairs of buttocks and raw messages. “On Twitter, there is no censorship on sex, so there is a small parallel world developing there”, guides us Mistress Annaxxx. At 23, she decided to convert back to “domina”, the name of these bossy female characters thirsty for money. And these domineers are not going dead hand. “You have no other use in my eyes than that of spitting out bills and responding to any of my whims”, drops one of them in a tweet.

There are many ways to attract those Dominas call their submissives. This can range from the simple publication of a post-shopping receipt to be reimbursed, to the putting online of a Lydia or Galeries Lafayette kitty. But on some platforms like Sell ​​your panties, dominatrixes can also offer services in exchange. Posting a humiliating photo of their submissive on Twitter will cost $ 15euros to the lucky one. Getting ignored during a thirty minute cam session? This can go up to 60 euros. A humiliating phone call of a quarter of an hour? It’s 33 euros. The time of dominas is money.

In the past, Mistress Annaxxx has been an escort. “For some time now, I have had quite a few friends in this environment. When I was an escort, I met submissives. A close friend suggested that I do a few domina sessions. And then, I opened a Twitter account, because to recruit my submissives, I needed a profile. ” Since then, to supplement her unemployment, she also posts authoritarian messages to bait the barge. Collage: «So the loosers, who to serve me?», «Well, bitches, I have the dishes to do and the bathroom to clean. Do you want to lick my feet? It’s time» or «I eat with my girlfriend, you pay back».

Next to Twitter, she also has an account Onlyfans, that it does not update much. Less profitable and less fun: “Winning 250 euros just telling the guy ‘still my dog, I want some more’ it’s cooler than when it only goes up to 100″. ” With a single submissive, she explains sometimes earning as much in a day as in a month on Onlyfans. To ensure visibility, multiply the means to earn money or for the pleasure they derive from it, the dominas are increasing their presence on different platforms.

BB Kelly, who juggles between Onlyfans, Vends Ta Culotte and Twitter, has also taken a liking to this game and to the despotic character she created, which, according to her, would not be too far from reality: “Kelly is a character, yes and, above all, no. I’m natural here, obviously we are like in the theater so we add more, but I think that if we are not ourselves, it shows. The person in front will realize in case of doing too much or if we practice things that we do not like. It’s a super open environment and I think it’s an opportunity to be 10,000% yourself. ”

Give and take

BB Kelly was also a sex worker before going into domination in November 2020. Her thing? Only the findom (financial domination), financial domination. An activity to which she devotes hours: “Every day, you have to produce exciting content, highlight it or chat with regulars and new ones. I spend an average of eight hours a day on Twitter and other platforms. But when I get up and I don’t want to, I don’t force myself. ” His practice, BB Kelly does not sum it up to a question of profitability compared to the time spent and says to be “Really excited” by what she does. She adds that, anyway, she has a side job.

“Even those who only sneak every now and then, I talk to them.”
Cleopatre, dominatrice

The money collected by the Dominas does not fall to them in a snap, no matter how well manicured. And the relationship wouldn’t be one-sided. Cleopatre, domineering for over a year, insists: it’s give and take. The dominated would never leave empty-handed: “I wouldn’t say people have nothing in return. Even if there are some who make you an offering and you never answer them, well, it’s delirium. There is not nothing in return for their devotion, they did not pay for nothing. I will take care of them, I will take care of their devotion. Even those who only sneak every now and then, I talk to them. And I know that we are very much in this case. Finally, once the person is profitable, but that’s the principle in fact. It’s very stimulating for both! ”

Inflate the ego

“Dogs”, “big fool”, «pigeon». The dominated are called all names and they like it. How to explain that they pay for contempt? “Money slavering is quite complex. I don’t explain it, it’s a game of submission, BB Kelly answers. I don’t think any sexual “kink” can be explained 100%. Some say it’s a rousing arousal, others that men are just happy to have our attention. ”

Attention that is not always limited to the virtual. Mistress Annaxxx sometimes meets her submissives. She practices cashmeet, meetings in front of an ATM.

“I’m pretty submissive in my personal life, so it’s fun to switch roles.”
Mistress Annaxxx, dominatrice

Once the money is collected, she leaves. Mistress Annaxxx also gives in the actual humiliation sessions. “I do these sessions as a duo, with a friend, so that I will never be alone. I make sure not to put myself in danger. ”

Some dominas even exchange messages to find out if the person contacting them is reliable. For now, apart from a man who has it “Planted in the middle of a shopping meeting”, she didn’t have bad encounters. Better: being dominated would boost his ego. “I’m pretty submissive in my personal life, so it’s fun to switch roles. The dominated may be the old, the rich, the less rich, students. But to see a muscular guy at his feet, it’s amazing. And that can change your view of men. ”


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