Being free after the age of 30 is at the same time much more fun and alienating than being single at the age of twenty.
If you can have fun, without any restrictions that dictate the insecurities and hesitations typical of this age (or, better said, age), after 30 years of disappointment, often accumulated, the list of obstacles and prejudices towards the opposite sex begins to extend proportionally. failed attempts.
The problem, however, is often the same: finding a man left alone after age 30 who wants to commit to a serious relationship.
Whether the blame is on the economic crisis that forced them to extend the time frame in order to make a career and feel independent and fulfilled, or, on the contrary, they were trivially spoiled by too many offers, is not known.
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The fact is that this generation has been fleeing from commitment, conflict and love for 30-40 years.
Here are the biggest problems you will have to face if you come across one (in order of increasing weight).
The ego is an indispensable element for creating a person’s identity, the problem exists when it is too big, when it leads to everything revolving around him, to think that he is always right and that he never conflicts through discussion.
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Here, when faced with such adult male thinking, it is difficult to create any kind of dialogue, unless you adore him as a geisha.
Their routine is in the first place, work, presentation to the boss the next morning, aperitif with colleagues, and you, who are something new and just known, do not find any free window in his daily schedule in his busy schedule.
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And in fact you didn’t try to have fun with Obama or Justin Trudeau.
They are afraid that they don’t have to really show who they are, that they have to reveal themselves and that they have to explain themselves, as if you are looking for their weaknesses or looking forward to stabbing them in the back.
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They feel compelled to prove something and they just can’t let go, they live the best of everything, they live you.
They even struggle to call you, they are used to girls jumping on them and writing phone numbers on their foreheads, so why bother?
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If they see an opportunity to take steps towards them on the horizon, it is pleasant for them and they are comfortably waiting for something to happen. You should leave them there.
Women who are independent and know what they want scare them, those who always have the answer, who put them in a corner and because of whom they can look stupid in society, less good, less cool.
They are scared as if they will enter a cage with lions. They don’t want to compete, they don’t even want to question themselves. They are afraid of feelings of addiction.
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They must be able to evacuate from the building in a fire (of passion) quickly and without thinking, because what they have felt and suffered in the past must never be repeated.
They are afraid that they will not be dependent on feelings, that they will not be able to escape and leave the ship, or that they will simply feel limited, so they keep their distance between you and them.
It is difficult for them to introduce you to their friends, it would be a demanding statement, it is as if they should say that you are important to them, that you are present in their life and that you are also a part of his world.
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That’s why they keep you at a distance, like the US and Mexico, even if they could, they would build a high wall to keep you from getting through.
Barrier Game of Thrones it’s nothing compared to it, and it’s just as cold there.
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They raise very high barricades so that you would not conquer it, and no matter how much you declare yourself with words and gifts, they do not lower the drawbridge even under torture.
The time that passes makes them regress even more, they are afraid of aging and for that reason they want to enjoy life and behave like teenagers more than ever, or at least try.
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They go out regularly, get drunk, try to make a connection with 20-year-olds, disappear and then start over.
Ah, they already know everything, they are over thirty years old, why would they need any suggestion or criticism?
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It doesn’t matter if they will still have sex as if they were in a porn movie from the 80’s, you have no right to say anything, you really don’t understand them and if you don’t like it, you have a problem with frigidity.
Source: Sito&Rešeto by www.sitoireseto.com.
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