SEXUAL TRICKS that will give you the X-factor in bed

Enthusiasm is the obvious answer, says the famous sex educator. Good technique and experience second. But there is another factor that separates the great lover from the pack: unpredictability.

The most sensual, stimulating sexual act quickly becomes boring when repeated. Next time you’re having sex, pop one of these in to get your partner excited and paying attention.

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It fires twice as many nerve endings and fuels anticipation of what you’re going to do or where you’re going next. Most of us can masturbate to orgasm more effectively than our partners (we’ve had more practice).

The reason it feels so much better when someone else does it isn’t just because it’s less effort, but because their touch is (hopefully) unpredictable.

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Research shows that men produce significantly higher levels of testosterone when they are touched by someone other than themselves. Good combinations to try: penis/testicles, penis/anus, vagina/clitoris, clitoris/nipples, etc.

Or try this for a killer combo…


And you will immediately upgrade your oral sex skills. Get him on his feet while you kneel and start oral, then press your flat tongue against his anus, flick it against the opening, then stiffen your tongue and push in, thrusting in and out.

As you do this, continue to stimulate his penis with your hand. Go back to his testicles by licking the entire perineum, then lick them with a wide, flat tongue. Drag your tongue along his shaft and roll your tongue around the head of the penis.

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Keep pounding him, but add anal again by inserting a well-oiled finger right before orgasm. You can achieve a similar effect by using the side of your hand and pressing hard between his legs.

IMITATE THE FORESKIN (the skin that covers the tip of the penis)

If he is not circumcised, he has a built-in natural lubricant – foreskin. Get a firm grip and then hook the ride, sliding it along the shaft, rolling it over your head and back down.

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If he’s circumcised, mimic that foreskin sensation by masturbating him using a silky hair scarf, your (previously worn) silk panties, a sock, or even slippery wipes (if you’re really into it). Wrap it around the base of his cock and roll it up and down.


Have your partner stand in front of a full-length mirror (or catch them admiring themselves). You enter, stand behind and seduce them in front of the mirror. Play with their nipples, kiss their neck, run your hands over their body, take off their clothes and yours before snuggling up and rubbing naked against their back.

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At no time are they allowed to turn or move in front of them. Finally bring them to orgasm by placing them around them to give them handiwork to watch. It imitates the angle they use when they enjoy themselves – and they watch in fascination how they look when they are aroused and have an orgasm.


The “V” works because it stimulates parts of the clitoris that cannot be seen. Your fingers should point “down” (toward her bottom). Use your index and middle fingers to form a V-sign and slide them on either side of the clitoris, running them up and down over the outer lips.

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As you run your fingers up and down to stimulate her “inner” clit (the clitoral “legs” that run down the side), you’ll also gently pull her clit hood up and down, working her “outer” clit as well (the tip you can see). Gently circle your fingertips as you slide into a V-toe position to stimulate both at the same time.


Yes, I’m serious, and yes, this is officially not a trick. But do this regularly and your tongue will be as nimble as possible for oral sex.

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Repeat all these exercises 10 to 20 times before moving on to the next one. Stand in front of a mirror and bend your tongue so that the tip touches the roof. Now move on to the tongue curl: curl the edges of the tongue, then let it lie flat. Then stretch out your tongue, extend it all the way out, then pull it back in. Finally, try to touch your nose and then your chin.

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