Much has been written throughout history about jealousy and envy, about human malice. There is no generally accepted definition, but mostly everyone agrees that it is a negative trait, extremely toxic to the person who carries it within them.
Here we will exclude that kind of youthful jealousy and focus on the one that defines human relationships, on envy.
It is interesting that envy is mostly related to the material, but it can also be related to many other aspects of life. The essence is that jealous people are those who are not satisfied with their life, with what they have, what they know and what they are like.
The world-famous author, Paulo Coelho, puts it nicely: “Don’t hate jealous people. They are jealous because they think you are better than them. “
It is interesting that some people are jealous of a smile, of when someone is happy, when they are laughing. Well, there is no cure, it is a factory error. People probably expect that if something is bad for them, it must be just as bad for others, and possibly worse.
If they see you smiling, happy, they will ask you what is wrong with you, why are you laughing, what are you in such a good mood, as if it is not normal to be in a good mood.
Here, try it for yourself! One day be in a great mood, don’t watch TV, don’t read newspapers (except “News” of course), be cheerful, talk only about nice things, laugh. Pay attention to the surroundings, they will look at you strangely. Here I am somehow always in good spirits, but objectively I have to, I don’t have much choice, everything else is busy.
The solution to the enigma
The great Dusko Radovic said: “Those who owe you the most hate you the most.” It is a special phenomenon, to somehow experience negative experiences from those to whom, as they say, we “rolled” the most.
Personally, I have been looking for an answer to that question for a long time, and one of the offered solutions to the enigma was contained in an Eastern wisdom: “If you didn’t eat a lion, it doesn’t mean that a lion wouldn’t eat you.”
However, that is not an answer, it is more about your former friends not considering you friends because you are simply reminding them of themselves from the time when they needed you so much. It is also good when such people turn yellow, when they leave our lives. It is much worse when they become enemies, when they gossip about you with other people.
Unfortunately, this is often the case with the closest friends, relatives, often even the closest ones. There is only one correct message for them, make a gentlemanly agreement with them like: “You stop talking about lies about me, and I will stop telling the truth about you.”
I think it’s fair and above all effective.
Don’t burden yourself
A difficult topic, but don’t bother thinking about who is jealous of you, it doesn’t matter for any reason, because he openly admits to you that you have something he / she would like to have, but doesn’t have. Let’s end in a cheerful tone, on the topic of jealousy.
The rich sixty-year-old marries a young and beautiful 28-year-old miss. Gathered his rich and above all jealous friends at the wedding.
They ask him how he managed to win such a beautiful and young woman, how he managed to persuade her to marry him.
– Well, I lied about it for my age.
– Really? What did you say, how old are you – shouted his friends.
“I said I was 87,” the groom said.
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