My sister-in-law and her husband have baptized our child and never take a gift from him
I understood from the beginning how gypsy they both are but I said to give them a chance, unfortunately to the detriment of my child. My sister-in-law, my husband’s sister, and her husband christened my first son six years ago and since then they have not received a single gift from him. What is his birthday, what is Easter, what is Christmas, they have never brought him a single chocolate. We have reached the point where we take the gifts and tell him that he is from his godmother and godfather.
If there were financial difficulties, I would understand, but they do not exist. They have been married for years, have their own home and are both in very good jobs.
I do not know why they have this behavior. The only excuse I could give them is that they do not have children so they may not know that we bring gifts to children, but I do not think that is the case. Even the lame Maria knows that we get shoes, a candle and a chocolate egg every Easter at our baptisteries, don’t they?
They are just stingy. As much as I try to gild the pill, so they have learned to do and so they do without caring what others think of them or how much they hurt a child. At some point my child will grow up and learn the truth. When he asks me why his godfather and godmother have never taken a single gift from him, let me see what I will tell him.
I am really sorry. Sometimes I argue with my husband because he pressured me to be baptized by my sister and her husband, but he too is not to blame and his position is too delicate to catch his sister and tell her. I do not know what to say. A man who has not learned to give, has not learned to offer, I believe he is empty inside. The issue is my child what’s wrong to pay her…
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