My husband went on a night out with another man. Should I forgive him or divorce him?
My husband is 36 years old, I am 32 and we have been together for four years, two of which have been married. I thought our marriage was going well and we were happy until recently she confided in me that about a year ago she went not with someone else but with another man. After his revelation I don’t remember much. The only things I held back are that it only happened once, that he is very sorry, that he was drunk and didn’t know what he was doing, and that he feels guilty.
As he revealed to me the reason he told me the whole truth (because apparently he never intended to tell me) was because this guy who is a friend of another friend of ours contacted him and wanted to get back together and was probably worried about me finding out what happened ( sweetened by what the other seems to be or ran out of lovers and found mine, the right one, the “tried”).
My husband is generally an exaggerator and lacks empathy. He does many things without thinking of the consequences. He has caused me various problems in the past, which there is no point in bringing up now and although he has calmed down a lot since we got married he still surprises me once in a while – unpleasantly most of the time.
The element of surprise is not lacking in our marriage which makes it interesting, but when the surprise is bad there I really feel lost and I don’t know how to handle it.
I’m sure what she did was another indiscretion, but it’s still infidelity with a man who hurt me. I still want to save our marriage because I love him. I don’t know how to handle this or if I can move on from this as much as I want to.
Is it worth forgiving him or is it better to divorce him? I would love your opinion.
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