Male friendship is a blessing for every woman
I will start the article with a simple and clear statement: I believe in true friendship between men and women.
This pure friendship in which sex plays no role and no erotic feelings lurks in the mind.
Such friendship is indeed a rare phenomenon, but I believe that it can really exist and where it exists, it surpasses any other friendship between the same sexes.
And if you are a woman – especially since you have not had a similar experience – you will tell me, why do we women need male friendship? We miss you. Men do not have a period, they do not experience pregnancies or they do not understand love like us. We are in the sun and they are on the moon. We are so far away, you will tell me. But come on, I believe the exact opposite…
Let me clarify that at the moment we are talking about a man who sees you as absolutely friendly. You will go for coffee, you will comment on football, you will call him when the tap breaks or when you run out of rubber or when an asshole is harassing you. These friendships are usually born in the student years or more difficult at work. Because there you know the other when you are still children. You live with him every day.
He has seen you in your black sucks, at your best, upside down, in your drunkenness, he has talked to you about chicks and in general he has experienced you from all points of view without any romance ever developing between you. It may have scratched your mind at some point, but it went away right away with the first blow to the shoulder and the first sarcastic joke you shared.
Male friendship is a real blessing for a woman. Those who experience it, fully understand me. It is something that arises on its own over the years, without pressure and not at all consciously. You just wake up one day and say he’s my boyfriend! Why do you remember that he was always the first person you looked for in your black to help you or because you had the most meaningful conversations about life or the most unforgettable madness with him.
And it is, I say, a blessing because you have a friend who sees things exactly as men see them. The only difference is that he is not in love with you so he has a clear mind and not the other blurred one that many times you make him men donkeys. You experience this creature of nature at its best. Because men are smart and simple in everything. If you listen to them, you have a lot to learn. And you have a lot to learn about the same men. No, to play them on your fingers, but to understand their sensibilities – which they have many – and their way of thinking.
Together with your boyfriend you feel safe, proud, important. But you can do whatever nonsense comes down to you, have fun with him without thinking that he will misunderstand the slightest thing.
And when there is no bed in the middle men are the most sensible, the most compassionate and the most audible creatures on this Earth. More than women. They do not oppose you in the bullshit, in the career, in the clothes. And they have nothing to envy or gain from you. They do not constantly demand attention and nagging, they do not talk with riddles, they do not want to go to the toilet with them and of course they do not misunderstand easily. You can be with them yourself and feel liberated, no matter if you do not see them constantly.
And not to be misunderstood, to say that there are many women – men. That make you feel exactly the same things and are the perfect girlfriends.
If you have such a stick and put sex in the middle, you lost it! You stop being his soldering iron. He stops behaving the way he treated you before and demands that you do the same. You are no longer his “company”, but his chick and you must have the appropriate behavior.
Even if in the beginning everything is fairytale between you, at some point it stops. The friendship is lost forever in the first quarrel, in the first scene of jealousy, in the first small separation that you will experience. He stops becoming the person you confess everything to and who you ran to in every personal problem. He can no longer give you his logical opinion because he himself is often part of the problem. And a couple always has problems, no matter how much we want to play it on social networks in love.
And if you end up divorcing once and for all, then there is no going back. You lost a precious friend for a moment or for a repulse.
So take care of your male friends and in your love affairs look for someone who will treat you with the same respect, the same love and will like you for who you are and not for the supposed image that you should have as a woman. After all, when sex is over, on the same couch you will be snooping sharing the same pizza and the same beer.
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