If you want to be happy in love, follow these nine rules

There are people who manage to have happy and stable relationships without (apparent) boredom. And others who continue to always face the usual obstacles.

How then to be happy in love? Is it luck or does it require some skill?

The truth, as often happens, the truth lies somewhere in between: if you fall into another category or you have the misfortune that you have not yet met the right person for you, or you are doing something wrong.

Also read this: How to become aware of disturbing emotions

Like? If you fall in love in less than 24 hours, despair after just a week of dating a guy or don’t know the environment, the good thing is that to change your attitude just follow these nine rules.

For everything else, on the other hand, one only has to leave oneself to fate.

# 1 Ask yourself if you like him or your show about him

Do you fall in love with someone without really knowing them? You repeat to your best friend that he is the man of your life, but have you only come out once?

Also read this: How to overcome adultery

You may have to start wondering if you really fall in love with him or your idea of ​​him, and if your brain can’t handle more than one sympathy at a time, it’s probably an obsession.

Before you ask yourself how to be happy in love by blaming fate, pause for a moment and give yourself time to really get to know the person in front of you.

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Okay, you’re an incurable romantic and you want to throw yourself into every story you live to the bone, but maybe you shouldn’t do your best and reveal all your cards to anyone who shows up at your doorstep.

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Again: give yourself time to find out who you are in front of, and let him get to know you.

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Foto by wirestock, Freepik.com

Do you talk only about him, do you think only about him and your mood is determined by his actions?

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Well, then you’re obsessed and you’re not in love, especially if he’s only been in your life for a few weeks. Don’t use the excuse that you are sensitive because it doesn’t work, find yourself a new, healthier obsession, like hiking.

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Photo cookie_studio, Freepik.com

Your father is not perfect, Leonardo DiCaprio is not perfect because there is no perfect man.

Also read this: How karmic habits affect love life

Tattoo this sentence in your mind and stop idealizing that type of clinical man who does not respond to your messages, imagine him in the bathroom in the morning when he meets his physiological needs, he will be less attractive to you.

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What are you, Oliva, so you need Popeye to save you ?!

He is not a superhero, superheroes do not exist and he was not created to make you happy, he will not save you from sorrow, he will not write you a love song.

Also read this: A love triangle with a friend

In short, whoever works alone is worth three, be happy with yourself and don’t let your life balance depend on another living being.

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I will reveal something shocking to you, there is an environment in life and as such it is good enough, and not everything is always black or white.

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For that reason, you cannot be indifferent or madly in love with a person, in short, you must be able to feel something similar to the nuance, that is, between complete devotion and absolute indifference.

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Your self-esteem and your value do not increase if you have a man next to you, you are not a failure if you are not in a relationship, marriage, etc.

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Judging yourself based on the success of your love life means being extremely strict and incredibly idealistic: look at yourself from a different point of view, you will love yourself more and you will be able to love yourself. You’re worth it!

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There are beautiful and talented women who peck crumbs (love) under the table and who often allow their partners to put their feet on their heads.

Also read this: What kind of men are weak strong women for ?!

Learn to judge clearly about yourself and accordingly you will judge those in front of you in the same way, a step that teaches you to love yourself and to protect yourself.

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Sometimes you want so much and you urgently need a love story to act as an alarm in an apartment that doesn’t want to stop ringing.

Also read this: Only when you go through the process of disintegration of the ego, you can experience love

Know that there is nothing less attractive and frightening in the world for a person of any gender: stop such behavior immediately or you will drive them all away from you (even your friends).

Source: Sito&Rešeto by www.sitoireseto.com.

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