I do not trust my partner because I got him from another woman and we had a relationship

I do not trust my partner because I got him from another woman and we had a relationship

My husband and I had a relationship about three years ago when we worked together. We were both close to 30 years old and in a relationship with different people at the time. I was married for about two years and he was in a relationship with a girl for many years, however we fell in love with each other a lot and we had a relationship after he first divorced his girlfriend and I divorced my husband. Our decision caused upset on both sides.

One would have expected things to be worse for me when I was married and getting a divorce but that was not the case. My family loved my husband very much and they trusted him completely. When they found out that I asked him for a divorce, they fell down to eat me but I was determined, so they realized that they did not have much room to react. My new husband received the biggest reaction when he announced to everyone that he broke up with his girlfriend. They all fell on him untied and tied to change his mind but he was determined that he only wanted to be with me. Even our colleagues at work who knew us for years and knew our relationships, judged us very harshly and turned their backs on us when they learned that we are together.

Three years have passed since then and we are still together and very happy. My main problem is that we now work in different companies and I do not have access to see where he is, what he does, what he says. I find myself lately being particularly suspicious and jealous for no real reason but how do I know I will not suffer what I once did? The easier it is for me to separate him from another woman, the easier it is for me to be afraid that he may be taken by an acquaintance, a colleague, someone in general. I can not trust him.

I divorced him from a girl, with whom he had been dating for many years and since then we have been together. If he finds some more cap than me and takes it from me, what will I do next? Every time he calls me and tells me that he will go out with his colleagues, I panic. I think about the times when we were the only two of us, the first days of our relationship and I’m worried that I might get bored and that someone else might take advantage of this and take him away from me.

He has never given me a reason or reason to worry or suspect him of something, but when something has already happened once, who assures you it will not happen again? Am I exaggerating or do you think I have reason to worry?

Elli

Source: singleparent.gr


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