I didn’t recognize her child and now that I want to recognize him, he won’t let me
My name is Alexis. I was married for 5 years to a wonderful woman but I cheated on her at every opportunity and without any regrets. Call me frivolous, call me frivolous, call me ridiculous, I’ve never been able to stay in a relationship. My ex-wife and I have 3 children, but in one of the extramarital affairs I had, the girl got pregnant and wanted to keep it. As soon as he told me I thought “life ends here”.
When the child was born I did not recognize him. What would I say to my wife? That I had a child with another woman? I didn’t want him to know, not that these things stay hidden for long. I saw the child as often as I could but that was it. My relationship with his mother continued for a while longer. She was pushing me to recognize it, for the child to have a last name, but there was no way I would accept. As harsh as it sounds I wanted no contact with this child. It came out of nowhere and threatened my family happiness. It would be like admitting my infidelity.
As I told you, these do not stay hidden for long. I may have broken up with the girl and never seen the child again, but in our area we have many well-wishers who ran to tell the truth to my wife and she kicked me out of the house. The divorce came out faster and as a result of the election, he also took custody and so I was left alone without a husband, without a family, without another relationship.
I went back to the girl 1.5 years later and told her that there was no longer any obstacle and that I wanted to recognize the baby and be together but the girl had not only met someone else, but they were also getting ready to get married and she cut it off from me. She told me that she no longer wants me to recognize her child and that she does not want to have anything to do with me. I didn’t treat her well yes, but by what right does she deprive me of my child?
For so long she has been asking me to acknowledge it and now that I have offered she has written me off as normal to marry her new partner.
Now she avoids me, doesn’t pick up the phones, doesn’t answer the messages and every time we meet she talks bad to me and threatens to call the police if I come near her or the child. Does he have the right to do such a thing?
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