Marriage is the sacred bond that arises from love, tenderness, compassion, harmony and respect to establish an honest family, achieve a quiet and stable marital life, and try to reduce marital problems, and many couples suffer from certain characteristics. Husbands, for example: the stubborn husband, the silent husband, etc. As this type of mood requires special methods to deal with it successfully, and in this article methods of dealing with the husband in general are learned, and how to deal with a stubborn husband and a calm and calm husband, which is something that must be avoided in order to avoid the emergence of marital problems and disputes, we will also consider In the warnings about marriage.
How do you deal with your husband:
We offer you a set of tips and instructions that must be followed carefully to have a calm and stable married life, and you can learn about how to treat your husband through the following points:
- Make the home atmosphere full of joy, happiness, happiness, joy and jokes, and stay away from depression, sadness, despair and all negative emotions that can change the mood, because men love women who dominate the atmosphere of the home with joy, fun, laughter and fun.
- Because the man hates noise, crying children, complaints, the need to properly care for children, raise them properly, take care of all their affairs, and avoid quarrels with children in the presence of the husband, so be sure of that constantly. nag. .
- When any marital problems arise between a woman and a man, the woman must have a mind, that is, she solves these problems with simplicity, calmness and wisdom and tries to absorb the man’s anger and the presence of marital problems between the spouses. . The size and duration of the problem varies from one home to another, and the wife is the main controlling party in this matter because of her ability to solve problems or the complexity of problems.
- One of the most important ways of treating a husband that every wife should know well is respect and gratitude to the husband, and God Almighty has commanded and commanded our honorable Messenger to respect the husband, just like respecting and appreciating the wife. Her husband shows that she was raised healthy and healthy.
- In the event of the husband’s absence or alienation, that is, the woman must reassure her when she is not at home or late for her work, and increase her interest in her husband when alienating, because her husband has moved away from her. From her country and her family she feels lonely and should receive more attention from those closest to her.
- A woman must be honest, respectful and maintain herself in her absence before being an honorable role model for her family and husband.
- A woman should praise her husband in her meetings, talk about all the good and positive aspects of her husband, and completely refrain from distorting or talking about her mistakes.
- A woman should keep away from everything that annoys a man as she says or does.
- Since a man’s stomach is known to be the closest path to his heart, a woman should make sure to provide her husband with everything that is appetizing, whether food or drink.
- Avoid raising your tone, as the man is separating from the woman raising his voice.
- Make sure you pamper him and don’t get distracted while raising your kids or everyday matters.
- Ask him for an excuse when he’s helpless or makes a mistake.
- Be tolerant and forgive him for his mistakes.
- Be a thin and sensitive woman and stay away from anything that misses your femininity.
How to deal with a stubborn husband:
Since many women face many problems with their stubborn husbands in their opinions and behavior, the most important ways to succeed in dealing with a stubborn husband are identified, thus reducing the amount of problems that can occur between spouses due to stubbornness, and we refer to that. To the most important of these methods are as follows:
- A woman should try to accept the nature of a stubborn husband as it is, since it is difficult to change the personality in general, it is possible to reduce the risk so that it is difficult to change it.
- Be a lot of expression of your love and admiration for him.
- Avoid any issues and disagreements that anger and excite him, and avoid trying to pursue your opinion completely, or more precisely, stay away from stubbornness with him because he does not respond to this method.
- The wife must give her stubborn husband enough space to do what he wants and be independent in all areas of her life, as the intense pressure from the wife anger and complains about her, which in turn strengthens her stubborn character.
- Make the path of dialogue and discussion with him calm and pleasant, and avoid raising his voice, encourage him and praise him at every stage of his life.
- Avoid too many cravings and try to participate in all of his favorite activities and daily activities.
How to deal with a quiet husband:
Many women face the problem of husbands’ silence. The man is a little silent, the man is silent and cannot easily reveal what is inside him, words, feelings, or feelings, so the main role in changing the silent personality of his wife is great and her husband, and attention to how to deal with it, so the woman must watch her with her quiet husband Some of the main points are explained, and the most important of these points are: Follow-up:
- Be gentle, affectionate, and kind and increase your romantic words as if you were dealing with a small child with him, let your feelings flow to him and do not try to hide them as he does.
- Avoid talking to him while doing a certain job or watching TV.
- Praise his words, thinking, personality, actions, and behavior and make him feel like an example for you and your children.
- Consult him in all areas of life, involve him in all of your interests and those of your children, and make him feel that you care about his views in your work and work with them.
- Try to open a space for discussion between you about everything that interests you, work life or participation in decision-making, and stay away from talking about boring traditional household issues, such as children’s problems, and quarrels with children. Food, drink etc.
- Try to create a fun and happy atmosphere in your home, get away from routine, always renew your home, and change the daily routine of married life.
- Make the style of discussion between the two of you fun, cheerful, and engaging so that he will gravitate toward you in response and will be interested in arguing with you.
- Ask him what is happening in his daily life in a gentle and simple way, share what happened, share ideas, and avoid direct condemnation.
Warnings about marriage:
Here are a number of warnings and the most important of these marital warnings that must be avoided completely because they lead to a threatening and unstable marital life:
- Stay away from anything that brings sadness and sadness to the house.
- Avoid insults, especially in front of family and friends, whether husband or wife.
- Stubbornness in preparing food for the husband, under the pretext of problems between them.
- Negligence in caring for and caring for children.
- Stubbornness in the decision and insistence on the husband and wife should relieve the spouses and avoid stubbornness, especially in marital problems.
- Negligence in the husband’s dress, appearance, food, and interests.
- One side examines the other about the little things and tries to cause trouble.
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