How to make every kiss first

A day torn from routine and repetition is a day imprinted in infinity. It’s clear. But how to do that? How to escape this rhythm of life, how to deceive him and jump on him?

He sits on his throne, watching us from above, from above, mocking our struggle, he lets us rest a little and just catches us in the trap of obligations, deadlines, expectations, compulsions, implications. We barely noticed, and yet we are in his hands.

Bojana Glušac, founder of the PED method and psychodrama psychotherapist
Bojana Glušacfounder of the PED method and psychodrama psychotherapist

I do not have a clear answer to this question. Which, of course, is certain I know it’s that I can’t remember a special moment when I was dressed up, smelled, walked on one of the streets of Belgrade in high heels. They are all the same. However, I remember exactly the moment when I stood barefoot on the warm sands of the Jordanian desert. I know that. A breeze was blowing, the heat soon spread throughout my body, time stopped and in that frame I caught the benevolent look of a Bedouin and my admiration.

Or, let’s say, I flew to different parts of the world and, no matter how excited I was about the trip at the time, I don’t remember the plane, the faces of the people, my feelings at the time, anything. But the first balloon flight !!! Well, that’s something else entirely. A young couple on an engagement flight, an experienced pilot, the basket stops 1000 meters above the fields around Belgrade, I see forests, meadows, all stables, a spring bird right in front of my face, I hear its wings rustling, I feel how small and grateful I am.

I wonder, is it necessary for them to be some special experiences, some different places, exotics, strangeness? Of course not. I also remember the first walk on the boat floor of the apartment where I live. Squeaky, quite noisy floor that chats with me and does not allow me to ignore it.

I understand that it is not necessary to run away from the routine outside, no matter how these different experiences often help us to stop and really notice them. If we manage to stop the inner noise, to tame worries, plans, expectations, if we discover a moment of inner silence and don’t let it escape us, if we slow down the inner rhythm and restrain it, then every kiss will be first, every sip of coffee will be revealed. every encounter to be precious.

Then we won. And they approached Infinity.

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