How to help partners solve their sexual dilemmas

You can’t expect your and your partner’s sexual appetites to always be evenly open, at full throttle, to the brim, 100%, and it follows that you can’t expect to always be fully sexually aligned.

However, that does not mean that you should rest on your laurels and watch your sex life fade, turning to dust.

If you think that short-term lowering of libido turns into a long-term state or if you do not know how to satisfy him / her because it seems to you that whatever you do, you do wrong, you have come to the right place.

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We are here to help you solve your sexual dilemmas!

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Although they say that classic sexual intercourse is one of the least effective ways to bring a woman to orgasm, although it is debatable, most women enjoy a good slap, if done properly.

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Too fast penetration and starting as if you were hitting her with a mallet, not making a difference whether you staple her or fill out a form in the tax administration, leads to the fact that she will take out a calculator every time and count how many new plums there are, if you understand me.

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So, first, slow down. Increase the time spent on foreplay and use lubricants, if it is not wet enough or for mutual, greater pleasure.

Experiment a little with different speeds, depth of penetration, angles of penetration and rhythms of stabbing. Keep your pelvis close to hers, let them be close. Grab her hands by the buttocks.

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Keep it as close to you as you can and grind it in a circular motion. Look her straight in the eye, to be connected all the time. Kiss her neck, mouth, face.

Offer her clitoral stimulation, with your fingers or one of the toys that serve it, while you are in it. The relationship itself doesn’t have to last forever, but learn to control yourself. Most women are happy with relationships that last from five to ten minutes, although they will mostly tell you fairy tales, which they read in love novels.

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This is mainly because she is not confident in herself, that is, she is worried about how she looks down there or because of the smell and taste. Eh, if women had as much security as men when it comes to oral sex.

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In any case, you have a much better view than she will ever have, unless she regularly holds a mirror in front of her vagina, checking how things are in the lower house.

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The female genitalia have a bad reputation – if it doesn’t “smell”, then it is “overly sensitive” because why else would it need so many products that serve to maintain hygiene in that area. And it has nothing to do with the truth! All this makes women quite paranoid.

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The first thing you need to do is tell her that she looks beautiful down there, in the vaginal region and how much it makes you want to look at her. Allow her to take a shower first if she is worried and making a fuss about whether you will like her taste and smell.

Try to put your finger in her vagina, bringing it to her and your lips and nose, to feel her smell and taste together. Show her that you enjoy her juices. This can greatly dispel a woman’s fears and feelings of discomfort.

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There are those who will break away from this gesture, but it only means that you need to be patient and persistent in your expression of pleasure and enjoyment. Don’t give up (on love)!

Compliments and encouragement should eventually ignite in resolving appearance and taste concerns. If he still hesitates, there will be a problem in upbringing. She was probably raised to think that her genitals were “dirty”, as was sex, after all.

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Strict parents or religious affiliation can work wonders in suppressing sexual energy and inciting frustration.

On the other hand, she may have had a bad experience in the past. Try to figure out what the problem is, but don’t push if she doesn’t want to talk about it herself. At least not at that moment. There will certainly be a better opportunity to talk about this topic.

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Suggest that she read some books or media articles. Let’s say, this one! To gain a little more self-confidence and self-confidence. There is a lot on the net. Maybe she could see a psychotherapist. Even better, you could be together! It can only bring you even closer.

After all, what is your technique? If you are rude and abrupt, maybe that’s why she avoids accepting the oral sex you offer her?

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The general rule is that if he pushes your hand away from you, it means that you are too rude, if he attracts it to himself, it means that you are too gentle, unconvincing.

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If I should bet, I’d say this is the first thing. It is usually the case that men rush in as if it were their last. Take it easy!

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The general consensus on what is good for a woman is to keep her moist, gentle, soft and equally aroused at all times. Next time, start stroking the outer sides of her vaginal lips, letting them open naturally, and then slowly pull your finger out and cross it between the inner and outer sides of her lips.

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Do not push on the clitoris, it is generally the rule! The gentler the point, the better. However, it is not an external toy.

Do not separate the clitoris separately, until the woman is completely aroused, and then try to circle around it with your fingers, before continuing with the sliding movements between the inner lips. Occasionally insert your fingers into her vagina to maintain moisture, but also because women like penetration.

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Remember, the head is just the tip of the clitoris. Stimulate the rest, which is hidden under the surface, using pressure and firmly massaging the area as much as it pleases.

As with oral sex, never change the direction of movement, that is, what you do, if the woman is close to the climax, although you may think it would be good to speed up or increase the pressure. We are not the same! Accept diversity!

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