How to behave when he can’t stand it

The candles are lit. Champagne opened. The strawberry turns and tumbles in a tall, narrow glass, on one leg. Barry White’s voice comes from the background. Enough to give you goosebumps already. Approach each other. You are looking straight into each other’s eyes. Lust washes over you. Hot kisses burst. From his touches, you will have to apply Jekoderm on erogenous points where the skin is thinnest.

And his penis is watching it all from a distance. It seems like enough pleasure for him, so he wouldn’t spoil anything, touch anything or disturb him, but decides to cool off and watch the sex party from the side.

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The fact is that the party can go on without his direct involvement, but if you ask any woman, she will tell you that she inevitably expects the guy at some point, especially when the party is coming to an end, to join the game and lead to the climax.

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Whenever it happens, it’s never pleasant and it will disrupt the relationship for as long as the man, no matter what he says to you, at least for a moment.

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Statistics say that at the moment as many as 150 million men have a problem with the permanent or repeated ability to achieve or maintain an erection. In ten years, that number will be doubled. This type of sexual impotence occurs more often as a man ages, so that after the age of 40 every third man faces this problem.

Therefore, we give you some tips on how best to handle this situation.

Never ask if this has happened to him before!

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You simply don’t need to be interested in it so it doesn’t start haunting you. Because if he is, then you’ll start imagining him with those other women, and if he’s not and this is his first time, then you’ll burn yourself in hell because you’ll think he’s into you and you’ll start to feel guilty, what did I do wrong and the worst of all fears, I’m not good enough.

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It’s not up to you and never has been. He probably drank too much alcohol. Maybe he has stage fright or is under stress, and maybe some deeper psychological problems are chasing him. Whatever, it’s not up to you!

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On the other hand, that question will not help him solve the situation in which he found himself. Because if the problem is really in his head, forcing him to delve into his sexual history will only make things worse. Most of all, among you. People can get used to some ordinary things, but never to existential black holes, which concern masculinity.

Don’t think it’s up to you!

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No man has ever thought – um, I’d like to have sex with this chick, I just hope I want to have sex with her badly enough to make my cock as hard as a rock. That kind of disparity does not exist. If you managed to reach the bedroom, he fell on top of you, almost as well as his cock. Unfortunately. Literally.

Make it clear to him that you want to help him!

Instead of asking questions about what is wrong and how it happened, talk about what you or he or both of you could do to fix the unpleasant situation.

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Would it help if I…well do your best you know it usually works. That’s the best a woman can say and do in a given situation. Or ask openly – how can I help, just remember that the first thing he will ask of you is to give him oral sex. But you knew that even before you asked him, didn’t you?!

Don’t fall for it!

If you use a condom as protection during sex, and he has an erection problem, it is very likely that the man will blame this form of contraception. You better check whether another model of condom would be more suitable for him, before saying that he doesn’t have to use it and that you can have sex without it.

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He’s probably just trying to get away with it, but he understands the importance of condoms just like you do. Don’t let him use that as an excuse because whining about wearing a condom is boring. Almost as much as a whining two-year-old. Keep in mind!

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