Do desire and love go together?

Desire – this word means the lack of something. Towards something we once experienced, we experienced. Or towards something unknown that we really want to experience.

I wish he was here. Although I could touch it! Just a little and my whole week would be fun! How many of us have already thought of the object of our desire in this way, the beloved person, who is perhaps not quite ours yet?

Sometimes it seems as if it doesn’t even exist, and eating a bite of chocolate would be better than rolling one… .Other times it hurts physically that we can’t embrace Him. Desire and love do not go hand in hand. At least in many cases – and our world today tries to lurk in us to like what you see, get it, make it your own. THE to require another person – it can happen in a minute. You go to a party, you feel good, you eye a little – and when the opportunity arises, if you are attracted to that person, you can already feel in the skies. True, it can only be in a less pleasant place and only for one night.

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However, if we are in love, the thing gets a completely different charge. We’ve heard it many times before: women are less able to separate sex from love than men. Of course they are females who shook their heads angrily at the hearing of this. Because, of course, today’s fashionable singles – who are really volunteers – are happy to live their world, just like two or three well-established guys in their bag.

However, some ladies are unable to do so. Not because many of us are inescapably romantic – we were simply formed differently. THE desire, sex is real if we could change the world for that boy. When he calls, his hand trembles into his voice, even half an hour later we try to hide our blushed face from those present in confusion.

Those certain butterflies circle in our stomachs, something explodes inside us at his touch… and we happily think back to every minute we spend together. And when we get into bed, it’s heaven itself.

It is often said: a long, multi-year relationship with love usually transforms into love. But the strong connection that continues to motivate us to return home to our couple with joy, to look forward to an evening bath together, to a hug full of passion, is given by the feeling of the former flame. Belonging together.

If we seem to be fine, and so far everything worked great – then suddenly one of us starts to pull away from making love, we have to think.

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If the desire decreases

A there may, of course, be health and a number of other reasons for the decline in desire – stress, fatigue, grief. But let’s take it very simple. The bad news is that in most cases, love is passing by at this point – and there isn’t that much joy and happiness in the relationship that would hold us together.

It’s coming from the ladies “I have a headache” and similar, much-mentioned phrases – and the guys sit in front of the computer because they just can’t miss an important strategy game. Fantasizing is not a sin. But if we notice day by day that a certain colleague or colleague is thinking in bed who was so right or so nicely dressed in the past, then there is trouble.

I wonder why we don’t think about the inner causes? Many of us just let the former happiness pretty much belong to the vanity. Just as it is necessary to maintain love, so it is to keep desire alive! Let’s not forget why our partner loved us.

How we looked, what we loved to do, what qualities we had in the beginning! What made us exciting and unique – it’s not that hard to seduce that seductive, mischievous smile! Then, come on, break what needs to be torn!

Real sex or masturbation?


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