They are always at our disposal, ever since our first contact with the world. Our first reaction is a feeling, followed by a piercing cry, which is the first sign that a new human being has inhabited planet Earth. The first sign of life that a baby gives is emotion.
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There are many reasons why people do not show anger.
In general, that feeling is not so socially desirable, because it is not pleasant for anyone. Neither to the one who suffers someone’s anger, nor to the one who gets angry. Because of the discomfort they feel, people often consider anger to be negative.
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But, if we stop and think, we will see that many things that are unpleasant are, in fact, very useful (such as studying, going to work, exercising…), and also many things that are pleasant to us, can be very harmful. (lazyness, non-compliance with obligations, postponing unpleasantness that will bring us benefit, etc.).
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In fact, unpleasant things are more often useful than pleasant things.
That is why there are more unpleasant feelings, because it is this unpleasantness that stimulates us to take action, since it makes us aware that something is not to our liking.
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If we felt rejected or despised when we were angry with the authorities, it is certain that we will be afraid to express our anger because we will be afraid of loss, that people will leave us, reject us, that they will no longer want to be in a relationship with us.
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On the other hand, if too often we suffered inadequate anger from our parents or other important adults, or we observed their relationships and it seemed to us that anger is terrible, that it is maddening, destructive, humiliating, that it can destroy, injure or kill , it is likely that such a conclusion will be decisive for us to restrain that feeling in ourselves, either because we will think that we can be destructive, crazy and aggressive, or because we think that someone will respond to our anger in that way.
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