“After sending my younger brother to heaven…” ’13 siblings’ eldest daughter Nam Bo-ra’s grievance

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Actress Nam Bo-ra revealed the difficulties of living as the eldest daughter of 13 children.

On Channel A’s ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ broadcast on the 29th, Nam Bo-ra appeared and talked.

On this day, Nam Bo-ra said, “Being the eldest daughter is not my choice. However, I thought that it would be difficult to live as the eldest daughter. My younger brothers call me ‘Omni (Mom + Sister). I just want to live as a child, but I am the one who can give something to my younger siblings right away, and some of them follow me. So it became like it is now. (From a long time ago) Parenting was good. I think I learned well because I learned quickly.”

Oh Eun-young said, “There are situations in life that are unavoidable. We can’t choose what kind of parents we’ll be born to. The tendency to pursue the responsibility and initiative of the eldest daughter must have coexisted,” he asked.

Nam Bo-ra said, “There was a really big crisis. There was such a thing that I had to send my brother first. At that time, I couldn’t cry when I went home. “My parents struggled a lot, so I struggled with it,” he said.

Oh Eun-young said, “A sad heart should be sad. However, he must have thought that burying it in his heart and pretending not to be sad would be healthy and energizing for his younger siblings. It must have been difficult.”

Also, when Oh Eun-young asked, “Have you ever had thoughts like, ‘What am I doing while I’m alive’ after my brother passed away?” Before that, I had the thought of ‘I want to finish everything’, but I wasn’t serious. But actually, the computer doesn’t rest when the power button is turned off. However, human life continues to operate without the power button, so I envy computers that turn off at some point. I wondered when my power would turn off. After that, I started thinking more about death.”

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