“His mother broke up our marriage”: 5 father-in-law share their pain
Ah, these mothers-in-law! How bad they can do if they do not behave with maturity and prudence towards their children’s partners… And the bad ones may not be the majority, but their unacceptable make-up has made a bad name for everyone. Take, for example, these five unscrupulous mothers-in-law who managed to break up their children’s marriages, as described by their mother-in-laws.
“His mother broke up our marriage!”
“I know it sounds like I’m trying to cover up the problems that my husband and I had, but believe me, this is not happening. We only had one problem: he was (and remains) a huge mommy! And his mother knows it (of course, since she made him a mommy) and constantly exploits it to fill her own gaps – materially and emotionally.
His father had divorced her when my ex was young and she turned her son against him, to such an extent that they have not spoken for many years. He did the same with me: he kept saying goodbye to him and when he did, he persuaded him to stay away from me. Fortunately we did not have children because I do not know what I would do… “- Alkmini, 28 years old
“I slept for 14 hours and did not rest – My body was trying to tell me something”
“Never stay in the same neighborhood as your mother-in-law”
“When my ex found a house a real opportunity, I did not even think for a moment to reject it because it was close to his paternal home. Wrong, because that was the decision that decided the fate of my marriage – it ruined him to say things by their name. It had not been a good day since we entered and my mother-in-law came for a walk with a critical mood.
Since then, we had her on our feet every day saying her gossip about everyone and everything and getting sour with everything – especially with my own choices. The glass overflowed when her kanakari began to parrot her desires for everything insignificant, such as e.g. the bathroom curtain. “Day by day, our fights erupted, until one morning I took my child, opened the door and you did not see her!” – Kyveli, 35 years old
“He told me that he did not want me as a bride since the wedding day”
“It is really scary for your mother-in-law to approach you on your wedding day and tell you that she does not want you as a bride and that she intends to make your life black. From that moment on I lived with a black cloud over my head.
The life full of smiles, joy, pain and tears of the unforgettable Rena Pagrati made me a psychological war and the bad thing is that it affected me. Not so much the first time, but after 2-3 years and especially during pregnancy, her presence became a nightmare for me. And it is true that my fukariaris my husband set limits for her, but she had set out to separate us. And he did it, causing little damage to our relationship at every opportunity. The highlight was when He accused me of having a chick in front of my mother. Enough, I said, and in a few months I was divorced. He won, of course, but I found my peace. ” – Mariza, 31 years old
“It was so good in the beginning that I did not believe it…”
“My mother-in-law welcomed me with open arms when I married her son and moved with him to the house she had built for him. She was sweet and caring and I felt like I was the luckiest bride in the world. Until one day, returned to the neighborhood his childhood love that, apparently, was more love of his mother rather than his own.
Her behavior changed completely, she became a different person and made my life skate. She did not even hold her grandchildren to help us where we both worked like dogs. At one point I could not bear it and asked my husband to face her, to find out why she has become so twisted and indifferent. “He showed no inclination to defend me and that was the last straw.” – Elina, 34 years old
“I was diagnosed with cancer 6 months pregnant, divorced and with a baby 10 months”
“He went to turn my children against me”
“Woe to any mother who falls in need of her mother-in-law and she proves to be a normal chef like mine. But what can I do since my mother lives in another city and I had to work to help my husband whose job was blown up during the crisis.
Somehow, my mother-in-law was found to spend half the day with the children and tell them about me that I do not love their father and I intend to leave him and with them. Luckily I took her by surprise and shot her badly from the house. My husband, of course, could never swallow it and so, as soon as we got out of debt, our relationship was no longer the same. “She continued to abuse me and she was very ill to be saved.” – Anna Maria, 42 years old
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